Engagement: The chicks gets an expensive ring. What does the guy get?

[PUNISHER]

apparently someone never listened to Leykis ..... LOL I feel bad for you

[Silver4G63MR]

apparently someone never listened to Leykis ..... LOL I feel bad for you

..........Tom Leykis Who??? FTMFW!

[PUNISHER]

Yup Leykis 101. Thats how I am drama free, I listened to him a couple of times, got some sense to me and here I am, all my money goes to my evo and not to my chick. :)

[Silver4G63MR]

Yup Leykis 101. Thats how I am drama free, I listened to him a couple of times, got some sense to me and here I am, all my money goes to my evo and not to my chick. :)

...................Yea I Know Who He Is

............I Listen To Him So Yea I Was Being Sarcastic Bro.....Hahaha

[MJCT9A]

stop dating gold digging sluts and you won't have problems

[Silver4G63MR]

stop dating gold digging sluts and you won't have problems

....+1 To That.......I Dated A Chick Like That U Know How I Got Rid Of Her?

....I Became A Arrogant Bastard! BWWAAAAAAHHH! Its All Good!

.......Treads Like These Are Phukin Awesome!

[vial8or]

stop dating gold digging sluts and you won't have problems

LoL.
This guy has the solutions to all relationship problems and marriage problems now.....just don't date a slutty gold digger and no problems will happen!

You should write a book!

[MJCT9A]

How old are you again? 19?

[VladEVO]

stop dating gold digging sluts and you won't have problems

He has a pont. Unless you are both coming to the table wealthy and can afford it cause she really wants it than fine get it. It will not affect you much, if at all, if you are bringing in 250k/year. I would, in a second, sell my Evo and get a GTR if I could comfortably afford it. "Fits four people, bang for the buck" fuck that when you have a GTR.
But if it will hurt you financially or put you in major debt to make her happy over such a pointless status symbol than you probably have more than just the problem of a 10k ring.

[EvilAWD10]

I had a similar situation. my girl wants to get married and all i think about are the goddamn expenses. its killing me to think of the costs of the wedding, rings, honeymoon.

i wish things were like in the caveman days where marriage was non-existent and you could have a gang of bitches and they were all yours! O0

[vial8or]

^^lol just ask why she wants to get married?

I mean is it just for the honeymoon? the presents? The "title" of being married?
If you guys love each other, why can't you still be committed without that "title"?
Plus, you can still vacation wherever you want! :)

[CASH$ MONEY]

How old are you again? 19?

hes 14...


hes not 40 yet....

[Miss Evo IX]

holy rant, if YOUR wedding ends up like this thats YOUR problem, not all of us are like that.....

+ 1 :)

[CRX2EVO]

Yes, ring, wedding and other pointless chickenshit are expensive, but it's got nothing on the risk that you divorce and your wife gets half of your stuff.

No shit huh, $10,000 ring vs. $150,000 equity in a house (plus all the stuff inside).

On the flip side if your kids are clean, fed and fairly emotionally stable then you have nothing to say even if she gets everything. If she is raising your kids properly STFU and go get fixed. What you want from this marriage/divorce is irrelevant. What is important is what the kids need.

Who said anything about kids? They're an even worse idea than a wife and will cost just as much.

[mizzEVOthang]

Old bump but oh well...

You men get to keep your name. Mr. and Mrs. "husbands name", you are cordially invited to...

I mean even the OP~ your girl doesn't even get her own screenname: ultraflip/ultrawifey.

[moogle]

*enters the thread after seeing the AZZHOLEZ signal flash in the sky*

Flip better not be complaining of a bad day. I know what he's doing today and that shit always is fun.

Marriage is just another extension of the good 'ol religious days. I got married because thats what people expect you to do. I try to be normal (but fail), so I have no issue with it.

But yes, it's a complete waste of a couples finances and time for most people. Which is why you do it like we did, the non-traditional way.

The ring is a family heirloom that was passed down to us = freenintyfree
My ring = $150 white gold with sapphires
Engagement/Promise ring (we both got one = $60 for both
Wedding = $5000 for EVERYTHING borrowed from family members which we paid back over a 1 year period
Honeymoon = $1000 for a hawaii trip 3 years after we got married.

Screw traditional crap flip. Screw the whole big wedding paid for by so and so's family, requiring this to be done, at this kind of place under these circumstances. Keep that money to pay for bills and move in money. Use it for thing that will better your relationship in the long run, not just a flash in the pan ceremony designed for your family to enjoy instead of you.

Ask Wifey S. We only held a ceremony to please the family members so we did it exactly as we wanted, and kept it feeling like a party.

And for those curious, yes, children are referred to as fuck trophies.

Terry S

Wow I found 2 gods in one day... 18K for a wedding why not use that as a downpayment for a house. To many whipped as fools walking around. 2 rings & a signed paper stating you are now legally married. All of that & after the honeymoon nothing changes. You go back to doing the same thing you were doing before the wedding..

WOo... Great advice. If I ever reach that point of marriage, I will def remember this.

[Robdog]

I miss my 11K